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Nelie Olivier

Nelie Olivier

Hi,

This is my blog, my name is Nelie Olivier from I am not a mistake foundation. Reaching out to those in need, who want to re-create their lives.

I have a story to tell, but more than that, I have a mission to reach people that need help!

I am sharing my story not to get sympathy from people, but to let people know that no matter how dark your world seems to be, there is always hope. You just need to keep knocking on as many doors as you can find. The right one will open, and I have come to realize after a very long journey that you will Find God waiting for you behind that door!

It took me over 50 years of feeling rejected and unwanted and lied to by the people closest to me.

THE BRAVEST THING I EVER DID WAS CONTINUING MY LIFE WHEN I WANTED TO DIE

  • Adoption
  • Depression
  • Rejection
  • Living a lie
  • Hate
  • Anger

Can lead to a person feeling so hopeless that dying is your only option. But GOD has the only say over your life!!!!

I can testify that I am a suicide survivor – as well as I trusted once – IN GOD and here I am today to tell you my story.

My full life story is on my You Tube Channel – I AM NOT A MISTAKE FOUNDATION, This channel has a variety of videos, from inspirational videos to videos with a little more about my journey as well as the projects that I am not a mistake foundation is currently undertaking.

Be sure to subscribe today!

You can also read my story on the Nelie Page on my website.

Good news, You can also find us on the following social networks: Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, Google Plus and Linkedin

See you there!

 

Adoption

Adoption

Overcome Feeling Neglected “YOU ARE GOD’S MASTERPIECE” ~Ephesians 2:10 CLICK HERE TO MAKE A DONATION AND TO SAVE A LIFE! When you find out you are adopted there is a rush of confusion and questions that comes over you. The one thing to remember is that being given up for adoption has nothing to do… Continue Reading

MENTAL AND PHYCOLOGICAL ABUSE:  SILENT TREATMENT

MENTAL AND PHYCOLOGICAL ABUSE: SILENT TREATMENT

MENTAL AND PHYCOLOGICAL ABUSE:  SILENT TREATMENT   I have personally experienced both (giving and receiving) the silent treatment. I also have a lot of people that I deal with that did not even see that “silent treatment” is a severe form of mental and Phycological abuse. My definition of this is:   A way to inflict… Continue Reading

Is Mental Illness a Condition or a Reaction?

Is Mental Illness a Condition or a Reaction?

Depression and anxiety disorders are becoming commonplace in our world, with more and more reported sufferers each year finding it difficult to combat their debilitating effects, and choosing to rely on medication to keep their minds clear and quiet. In many cases, medication is the only answer to this serious problem, but in this day… Continue Reading

Truth About The Silent Treatment

Truth About The Silent Treatment

The silent treatment is literally a non-visible way to inflict pain without. Research has shown that the same area of the brain that is activated by physical pain is activated when one is ignored. The way couples interact and treat each other during the bad times determines how strong the relationship will be. The best… Continue Reading

The Most Common Types of Abuse

The Most Common Types of Abuse

Unfortunately, several types of abuse are far too common in different forms of relationships. Forms of abuse typically are seen in domestic partnerships, however, abuse is also common between elders and their adult children. Regardless of the age, gender, socioeconomic status, education or ethnicity, just about anyone can become a victim of abuse. Understanding the… Continue Reading

Identifying the Symptoms of Depression

Identifying the Symptoms of Depression

Depression is a serious medical illness that negatively affects how one feels, the way one thinks and how one behaves. It can be caused by various factors including sorrow, alcohol or drug use, money concerns and potentially many other factors. Symptoms of depression are multifaceted and often vary from one person to the next, but… Continue Reading

Forms of Abuse Common to South Africa

Forms of Abuse Common to South Africa

For certain sects of the South African population, abuse is a commonplace part of life. And while more is being done each year to spread awareness of the problem, there are still limited solutions and safe-havens for its victims. When the conversation of abuse is on the table, the mind generally jumps straight to domestic… Continue Reading

The Characteristics of Great Adoptive Parents

The Characteristics of Great Adoptive Parents

Adoption is a topic that has mixed thoughts and opinions surrounding it. Some people only see the great aspects of such as giving people the change to have a child and have a family, and giving a child the love they deserve and giving them a second chance at life. However, there is a dark… Continue Reading